Kate Gosselin on "Bethenny": Reality TV Earnings Go to Kids' College Funds

Posted Thursday October 3, 2013 10:45 AM GMT

Her divorce from Jon Gosselin left a rather bitter mark on their family, but now Kate Gosselin reveals that she has no ill feelings towards her ex-husband.

During an interview with Bethenny Frankel, the talk show host asked the 38-year-old reality star about her ex and if she still continues to love him.

"Somebody once told me that if you feel sadness and empathy and pity for someone the root of that is love," Miss Gosselin states. "I feel like the person that I married nearly overnight was not that person anymore."

Also discussing her and Jon's custody arrangement, Kate says, "Without going into too much detail we are making the best of it. I definitely want them to know that I did not want to hinder or stand in the way of that relationship with him."

The mother-of-eight continues, "So I do everything I can to foster that because it is important and you have to have the ability to remove judgment and ugliness from that. The best thing for my kids is that I give them the opportunity and the ability to continue that relationship.

"When they are older if they don't want to do it anymore or whatever decision they make that is their business. For now, my job is to foster that bond," she adds.

In regards to where her money from reality TV goes, Kate answers, "The majority of what we made, I, personally took and put in a college fund for them because they will go to college. So I use coupons, we don't wear the top brands. Those things to me really aren't overly important but college, school and their house, where they live is important."

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